God Loves Fat girls, and I do too!

Ok, so this has been coming a long damn time. Most people who know me know my feelings and it is high time I bitched in blog form.

ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL. I honestly have met only a few that I have found unattractive, typically it had nothing to do with their appearance but lack of intellect or grasp of the English language. STUPID is UGLY. Sorry, it is true.

Here is the kicker though, whenever I speak about my desires I am either applauded or vilified. One woman argued with me that I was presenting an unrealistic world, unhealthy view for my opinion. First: It is not my opinion, it is what my body desires. I am positive she would never tell a gay man he was wrong for being attracted to men, so how it is right I am taken to such task for my adoring of fat women?

By the way, I said FAT! I will occasionally call women by the accepted moniker of BBW, but for Christ-sakes FAT IS FAT. And...there is nothing wrong with that! If you are 10lbs. overweight than what the clinicians say you should weigh, sorry, by there standards YOU ARE FAT. I do not agree with it, but it is what it is. LOVE YOUR FAT! It is what it is. I am sorry, I want a WOMAN to look like a fucking WOMAN...NOT a VAGINA  on a STICK! Women are supposed to be soft and curvy, not hard and cut, that's what men are for.

Now, on with the show.

Jayne Mansfield and Marlyn Monroe, Betty Page would be considered fat today. Yeah! Fat! Jessica Simpson was considered fat and was still a size 4!!! This, disgusts me! Yet, men still adore them aside from social stigma that it inherits. Many love Oprah, Queen Latifah, Anna Nicole (RIP) all have rabid male lusters today just as the pinups did back then, so what is it? What is the fucking deal?

As a Matter of fact, women in the 1920s through the late 1960s were ENCORAGED to GAIN WEIGHT by society. Much like the diet pills and fads of today there were weight gaining pills and a campaign against skinny women. Those who do not remember or disbelieve may click the following link:

http://www.retronaut.co/2011/11/vintage-weight-gain-ads/



Most men, though some will never admit it to friends, relatives, or on any public forum, prefer a woman to ...yes...here it comes...BE FAT. That is not all men, but most. In actuality the men who prefer an athletic or slim woman are in the minority. I can tell you this with absolute certainty, as I know what men say behind closed doors with others they are comfortable with. From a very young age, just as women are brainwashed to be barbie dolls, men are sociologically manipulated to hold strength and money in high esteem. We are told what to like, by parents, by the media, and the most important delineation by our peers. Ask any homosexual how that feels... it is worse for them. Heteros do not get off easy (pun intended fully) and males are subject to like what everyone else likes. That is the first factor.

I'll take the one who resembles a woman please...on the RIGHT!

The other factor is genetics. Instinct! We are genetically inclined to LOOK for the fittest gene pool. The most healthy womb we can put our peeper into to create more of us. It isn't something we think about or ever question, at first. What inevitably happens is this: Men age, and thus... do not give a shit anymore what anyone thinks, or what the instinctive programming thinks. Finally, around mid-30s, WE GROW UP. We can then think for ourselves and our hormones have stopped making our choices, in effect the rest of the body finally gets a cut of what motivates us, not just our tyrannical penis. Finally we can be ourselves and seek an actual MATE instead of a receptacle for our sperm. Crude, yes but true genetically. We become, at some point in there far far behind women, enlightened.

Men typically want a mate that has wide hips, baby bearing hips. That is the part of procreation that continues to fuel us until the day we die. However it is at this point we disregard the social norms, which incidentally did not exist until this century, and seek a woman with plenty of cushion. To what degree is really a matter of personal taste, but look around at the late 30 and early 40's men, do they really look like they care how they look? With exception to those having a mid-life crisis, no, they do not. Mid-life crises are caused by that need, that desire to breed and instill our genetic programming into the next generation. It is instinctual. We will seek younger and more fit mates during this phase, yet, we never seem to want to settle down with them do we? It typically ends up with a breakup, the man feeling like a man again off to seek someone he can settle down with and BE HIMSELF with. A woman who has all the right curves that he desires. Typically older or his same age group. Smarter (obviously) and more sensible.

There is one last factor to consider, men are weenies. No, no, not have weenies, ARE weenies. The larger the woman, the more scared we are that we will somehow be less of a man. In our eyes, and yours ladies, men are supposed to be the big, strong manly type. The truth is, men..even BBW lovers will find a fat woman intimidating. Not solely do to her size, you could simply be 15-30 odd pounds overweight! Men are insecure, we are children, we never grow completely up and our egos are very fragile. Men's egos are wrapped up in our sexual performance, we are threatened by women who we feel may "outfuck" us. We are threatened by women we cannot control or make submissive. Yet, we desire them the most as well. The fatter you are, the more we are turned on, yet the more we fear your demanding sexual drive and become anxious about living up to your expectations. This is generally where "Fat Bashing" makes an appearance, to save ego, to save face, and to save our shriveled penis from being humiliated at the hands of a REAL WOMAN.

This happens with the most attractive and the smartest of women too. I have seen it happen and with my friend summer studied it. Summer, had a body similar to Jessica Rabbit, and her looks could kill. Yet, many many times this woman went entire nights with absolutely not one man approaching her in nightclubs. On occasion, there were a few, but these were the type of men who are so arrogant and self assured it made her vomit in her throat. Most of the time, those types of men, are abusers and adulterants beyond compare. She wanted nothing to do with "playas".

Trust me when I also tell you, the curvier you are, the more instinctively a man wants you. If we can get past peer pressure, social programming, fear of rejection, fear of not being able to please, and just plain old fear... we may just surprise you. But, that is alot to overcome.

I, am a card carrying member of the Chubby Chasers club and have been since I was 14 years old. I am proud to say I want my women fat! Big and fat, to just a little fat. Fat is delicious! And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Lastly, Miss Monroe's stats are here:

Height: 5' 5 1/2"
Weight: 140 lbs.
Bust: 35-37"
Waist: 22-23"
Hips: 35-36"
Bra size: 36D

To me, she was a little thin.....

~PW